Being 21
You know what being 21 doesn’t changed anything in life. It just brings more stress cause more responsibilities gonna come. But of cause I’m going to graduate this year and that’s the only reason why I’m just stress :0
I decided that one 21st I will just spend like a normal day and yup I didn’t even have a birthday cake and I’m mean that’s totally fine for me because birthday is just a day that you are born.
I didn’t want create a birthday event because:
1) I’m tired I didn’t want to entertain people
2) I don’t have many friends actually lol
3) I didn’t want to have groups of friend that are awkward because the friends I know are all solo then a clique
4) I’m poor and I don’t want to spend my mum’s money or my own money
5) I don’t want people to waste money on the gift cause I know is a pain in the ass to buy and choose gift
And the list goes on 😂 okay maybe I’m too realistic but I mean I had a good time spending one to one timing with friends :)) Also, this year was special as my overseas aunt and uncle came to eat dinner with me and my family too heheh!! #bless :))
Family Dinners 🥰
When I was 18 I thought I will have a birthday party. Didn't happen. So I always thought I will have a birthday party to have all of my friends over to celebrate. But when I hit 19 it kind of struck me that maybe I don't want to waste this money on a party. At the age of 21, being ambivert (towards introvert) I kind of gave up the mindset of having big gatherings and being me a host? No way I will be dead tired after that. For now, I appreciate more to one to one session. But to be honest sometimes when I'm talking to that somebody during the 1 to 1 I will get tired too. But I always love it when both of us can talk about things that happened last time it brings back all the good memories ❤️ Because as year past I guess being more introvert makes me not have much event to know people and have memories with people. Hence, I tend to keep looking back to the old times where I was truly happy with my life.
I decided that one 21st I will just spend like a normal day and yup I didn’t even have a birthday cake and I’m mean that’s totally fine for me because birthday is just a day that you are born.
I didn’t want create a birthday event because:
1) I’m tired I didn’t want to entertain people
2) I don’t have many friends actually lol
3) I didn’t want to have groups of friend that are awkward because the friends I know are all solo then a clique
4) I’m poor and I don’t want to spend my mum’s money or my own money
5) I don’t want people to waste money on the gift cause I know is a pain in the ass to buy and choose gift
And the list goes on 😂 okay maybe I’m too realistic but I mean I had a good time spending one to one timing with friends :)) Also, this year was special as my overseas aunt and uncle came to eat dinner with me and my family too heheh!! #bless :))
Family Dinners 🥰
Friends Meetups 🍴
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